Melbourne is full of awesome experiences for every type of groom—from foodie adventures to adrenaline-pumping activities and everything in between. Whether your groom is chilled and classy or all about hands-on fun, there’s a perfect party idea waiting.
This guide will walk you through how to plan an unforgettable bucks party in Melbourne—with zero stress and maximum good times.
1. Know Your Groom
Before you dive into planning venues and activities, take a step back and ask: What would the groom actually enjoy?
Not every guy wants a wild pub crawl or a night of dares. Some prefer a more laid-back day with great food and close mates, while others want an exciting adventure or something totally out of the box.
Here’s what to consider:
Personality: Is he the life of the party, or more chill and low-key?
Hobbies: Does he love cooking, sports, gaming, or the outdoors?
Vibe: Does he want a daytime experience, a full weekend, or just a single epic night?
Planning something around his interests will make the day feel personal, meaningful, and most importantly—fun for him and the group.
Bonus tip: Don’t keep the planning totally secret. It’s okay to check in with the groom (or at least his partner!) for a little guidance.
2. Choose the Right Date
Picking the perfect date is key to making sure everyone important can be there and that everything runs smoothly.
A few things to keep in mind:
Aim for 2–4 weeks before the wedding. Closer than that, and things get hectic.
Check in with the groom and core guests (like the best man and groomsmen) before locking anything in.
Avoid long weekends unless you’re planning a getaway—venues book out fast.
Book early. Melbourne venues fill up, especially for Saturday afternoons and evenings. The earlier you reserve, the better the options you’ll have.
Once the date’s locked in, you can start building out the rest of the day with confidence.
3. Pick a Central, Easy-to-Reach Location
Location can make or break the day. You don’t want guests stuck in traffic or lost trying to find the venue—especially if there’s a packed schedule. The best bucks parties happen when everyone can show up on time, relaxed, and ready to have fun.
So, choose a central area with easy access to public transport, Ubers, or even trams. Melbourne’s inner suburbs like Richmond, Fitzroy, or Southbank are perfect. They’re filled with great food, drinks, entertainment—and importantly, they’re walkable between activities.
Also, consider where everyone will crash afterward. Is there nearby accommodation? Can people safely get home or to a hotel?
Pro tip: Planning around a “home base” (like a cooking class venue or dinner spot) makes transitions smoother. You can easily build your entire itinerary around that one central location—no wasted time or stress.
4. Build an Epic, Balanced Itinerary
It’s tempting to jam-pack the day with one activity after another—but trust us, less is more. The best bucks parties strike a balance between action and downtime, so there’s space to hang out, laugh, and actually enjoy the moment.
Here’s a simple structure that works:
Kick things off with a fun group activity in the late morning or early afternoon. Think escape room, paintball, or even a private brewery tour.
Follow it up with a hands-on experience like a cooking class or cocktail-making session. This adds interaction and some awesome bonding moments.
Wrap the evening with dinner and drinks at a cool bar, pub, or brewery. Somewhere laid-back, with space for toasts, stories, or embarrassing speeches.
If the groom's up for it, add a surprise element—a game, a personalised challenge, or a mini roast. But always keep the flow casual. People don’t want to feel rushed from one place to the next.
Leave room for spontaneity too. Some of the best laughs happen in the in-between moments.
5. Set a Budget Everyone’s Comfortable With
Money can get awkward—so tackle it early. Here’s how to make it smooth:
Set a clear budget before booking anything
Ask guests to chip in early, especially for group experiences
Use tools like Splitwise, bank transfers, or group chats to stay organised
Don’t forget to include costs like drinks, transport, or custom extras
Keep it fair. Not everyone’s working with the same wallet, so aim for something inclusive but memorable. If there’s room to upgrade, offer it as optional—not a must.
6. Don’t Forget the Personal Touches
The little extras make a bucks party feel one-of-a-kind:
Custom aprons, T-shirts, or tote bags
A playlist with the groom’s favourite throwbacks
A mini roast, photo slideshow, or funny awards
Personalised challenges or trivia games about the groom
These touches cost little but deliver big laughs and lasting memories. They also show you put real thought into celebrating your mate.
7. Why Otao Kitchen Is the Ultimate Bucks Party Venue in Melbourne
Want a party that’s fun, interactive, and totally unique? Skip the cliché and treat your groom to a Melbourne Ultimate Bucks Cooking Party at Otao Kitchen.
Here’s what makes it awesome:
🍜 Hands-on cooking class—choose from dumplings, Asian street food, pizza, or fusion menus
🍻 Drinks included—enjoy sparkling wine and refreshing beverages while you cook
🍽️ Feast together—after cooking, sit down as a group to eat what you’ve made
🧑🍳 Expert chef guidance—learn tips and tricks while having a laugh
🏠 Private venue in Richmond—indoor + outdoor spaces, close to Melbourne CBD
We’ll handle everything—ingredients, equipment, drinks, setup and cleanup. Just bring your crew and get ready to stir, flip, and laugh your way through the best pre-wedding party ever.
👉 Call us or visit Otao Kitchen to get started with planning your bucks party the groom will actually remember.
Conclusion
Planning a bucks party in Melbourne doesn’t have to be stressful. Focus on what the groom loves, keep it simple, and make it personal.
Whether you go for adrenaline-pumping activities, a chill food experience, or a full-day itinerary—make it about great people, good food, and shared memories.
And if you’re looking for the perfect blend of hands-on fun and celebration, Otao Kitchen’s Bucks Cooking Party hits all the right notes.
No stress.
Great vibes.
Delicious food.
A truly memorable day.